This is the question of the day. I need to solve this problem once and for all. I went out to dinner last week with a girlfriend who had been dating a guy for almost six months. They spend at least 2-3 nights a week together, have met each others friends, and of course, are in an intimate relationship. Sounds routine, right?
I am not so sure.
In the six months of their courtship, nothing has been said about their “relationship”. He’s not said, “I love you” or even, “You are my girlfriend.” They just don’t talk about their feelings or where they stand. She says he’s just “being a boy” and doesn’t like talking about his feelings. I think he doesn’t like talking about them because he doesn’t have any! I’ve seen this scenario before with other women too. I often ask them, why would you date someone for a year, two years, or three, without hearing a peep from the guy about how he’s feeling? It’s incomprehensible to me. I couldn’t spend time with someone and just assume they loved me. But there are many, many girls out there that either don’t seem to care, or don’t want to face the music.
So I am asking all you guys right now. What’s the deal here? Are you just being a guy, like most women believe? Do you really hate talking about how you feel? Or does it depend on who does the asking? Do you actually know how you are feeling, and fear the answer could get you kicked out of bed? Be honest. What’s the truth?