You Lost Him at Hello: From Dating to “I Do” – Secret Strategies from One of America’s Top Dating Coaches

Books on dating, books on how to find a boyfriend, dating books, relationships books, best book on dating, best dating book,Are you destined to be single forever? Even if it feels that way now, the reality is simple. No!

But to meet the man of your dreams, the guy you’ve been waiting for your whole life, you need to think with more than just your heart. You need the secret strategies of a smart dating coach.

Out today on Amazon.com and in bookstores everywhere, You Lost Him at Hello: From Dating to “I Do”: Secret Strategies from one of America’s Top Dating Coaches, has been the book to help single woman across the globe find and meet the love of their lives. Now this popular and proven guide has been revised and expanded with success stories and new techniques to help you find the guy that’s right for you – but more importantly to help you keep him once you do.

It was only a few years ago that I was a desperately seeking single myself. I didn’t understand why men never approached me, or why a first date didn’t result in a second. In college I had a bevvy of bad relationships that all left me sad and confused, prompting the question that most women ask themselves at some point in their lives: What’s wrong with me?

Lucky for me, just when all hope seemed lost, a revelation occurred and everything changed. I discovered a formula for dating that showed me how to better handle the tricky get-to-know-you phase and guided me towards commitment. Dates turned into relationships, and boys turned into boyfriends. In the past I used to agonize over every move I made. What should I say? When should I call? How should I act? With my new found strategy, however, I gained the confidence to take control of my relationships, and trust that if I stayed the course, it would lead me to a happy ending…

And it did.

If you are ready for a change in your love life, I can help you. Over the last several years I have studied and perfected a strategy that has helped guide women through the dating process and deliver them safely on the other side. The strategy will not only help you date smarter and find love faster, it will also protect you from making common mistakes that could easily sabotage your chances for a solid relationship. In You Lost Him at Hello you will find techniques that will help you:

* Find men and have them approach you (yes, there is a way!)

* Learn to read his signs of interest so you know if and when you should make a move

* End your date at the “Height of Impulse” so he will want to see you again

* How to actually “be yourself” around him – even though you are nervous!

* The number one technique that most women don’t do that will lead you to love this year

Stop making the same mistakes over and over again and start getting results. You Lost Him at Hello is every single girls secret weapon.

Jess McCann is also the author of the books, Was it Something I Said?: The answer to all your dating dilemmas (Globe Pequot, January 2013). She is an international dating and relationship coach who works with men and women all over the world, teaching them how to rid themselves of long standing habits that prevent them from finding love, and shows them how to move forward. To learn more about the coaching process, visit her here.

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Are you likely to end up alone? How to avoid being single forever.

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A twenty-eight year old woman sat on my couch today wanting to discuss one thing and one thing only: How could she avoid being alone forever? Christy was newly single and fearing the worst for her future. Her two favorite aunts, both in their sixties, never married. Her mother, had only been briefly wed to her father, but divorced before Christy’s second birthday. She was surrounded by smart, beautiful and educated women who had never found true love, and it scared her to death to think she would follow in their footsteps.

This is probably the biggest fear most single women have these days. Ironically, it is the fear itself that ends up keeping them from finding themselves a good partner and having a healthy relationship. Living in a state of fear, no matter what it’s from or what form it takes (paranoia, anxiety, anger to name a few), radiates an extremely stressful and tense persona. When your daily thoughts are consumed with fear, ask yourself the question, how can a man fall in love with me in this condition?

Many men want to find love, settle down, and start a family. I would say most men prefer this path. But they want to find a partner who is happy, loving, and confident. And being fearful all the time does not allow you to be any of those things. Perhaps you are waiting for the relationship to come so that you will stop being fearful and start being happy, loving, and confident. However, this is not a chicken and egg scenario. The relationship cannot come first. Content from within does. Only then will you be in a place that is able to attract another person.

How do you stop the fear?

To quote my favorite author, Eckhart Tolle, “Psychological fear is divorced from any real danger. You are here and now but your mind is in the future. You can always cope with the present moment, Continue reading

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Guy Got Your Tongue? How to handle him in any situation

should I text, does he like me, relationship talk, dating websiteWhen should I text him back? Does he like me or is he just looking for a hook-up? How do I bring up the “relationship talk?” If you are a single gal in today’s dating world, you have undoubtedly searched for answers to these questions as well as hundreds of others. In the past you may have asked family and friends for their two cents on how to handle a guy, however these days you probably go straight to the number one source for all information – Google. Yes, unbeknown to even your closest confidants, you have been asking Google for help with your relationship. Why not? It’s so simple. You just type into the search bar, How do I find a boyfriend? and poof! Thirty billion answers await you! Wait. Thirty billion is a lot of answers.

You’ve posed a simple question, but you have not gotten the simple response you were looking for. Instead you find yourself sorting and skimming dozens of blogs, articles, and videos all to figure out how to respond to his ambiguous text message. You just want the answer to your specific question. Why is that so difficult?!? (Insert cry of frustration.)

I have very good news for you. You can now get the specific advice you need without having to read pages and pages of unrelated or irrelevant information. You can get your dating advice, a la carte! Similar to how itunes saved you from having to buy a whole album to get those 2-3 songs that you love, I’ve compiled the most popular dating and relationship questions and put all the answers in one place. My new book, Was It Something I Said: The answer to all your dating dilemmas is different from all other relationship books because it uses Question & Answer format so that you can easily find the advice you are looking for. The Table of Contents is laid out just like an Index; every question listed with a page number.

Here is a sample of some of the questions in the Table of Contents:

When should I text him?

How do I get him to stop texting and start calling?

Can I turn my one-night stand into a relationship?

How do I tell him I’m not ready for sex? Will he lose interest if I don’t have sex with him?

Can I add him as a friend on Facebook?

How do I strike up a conversation with him?

Can I ask about his past relationships? How do I bring that up?

How do I get my hook-up to take me on a real date?

Why did he suddenly become distant? What do I do now?

How should I react when he cancels on me?

The best part about this Q&A book is that you will get specific advice on how to approach each scenario. In many instances, I give you the actual wording needed so you can have smooth conversations with your guy and achieve the best possible outcome for yourself and your relationship. So many women struggle to find the best way to say something, but now you can get all the tools you need to handle love’s challenges, big or small!

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Order my new book from Amazon, Barnes & Noble or Books-A-Million now, and be one of the first to read it! You can also get a sneak peek of all the questions in the Table of Contents.

And for those who asked How do I find a boyfriend, be sure to look out for the NEW REVISED and EXPANDED EDITION of You Lost Him at Hello: From Dating to I Do – Secret Strategies from one of America’s Top Dating Coaches, out in February 2013.

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The girl with the bad track record : a dating mystery solved.

I want to share a story with you all. One that may strike close to home. It’s about a girl named, Claire, who was pretty, smart, wildly successful, but could not seem to find a boyfriend. Her friends and family couldn’t understand it. They would say to her, “Claire, you are the total package. Why can’t you find a boyfriend?” Claire didn’t get it herself. She would go out with her friends, looking for guys, but for some reason, they never approached her. Finally after years prospecting and having no luck, she turned to the internet. She joined a dating … Continue reading

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The Best Way to Get Back at Your EX : One woman bares it all for revenge

SexyEbayStockphotoYesterday I was asked to weigh in on a recent news story. A woman in Florida, having found out her ex had been cheating on her, decided to sell his clothes on Ebay. Ok, that sounds vindictive enough right? Well, she didn’t think so. To really stick it to her former flame of five years, she decided she should model his clothes and show a little (or a lot) of her own skin in the process. He always hated when she would dress sexy, and now she is vamping it up for him and everyone else on Ebay to see.

Check out the story here. Girl Gets Sexy to Get Revenge.

Turns out her boyfriend is furious. But I’m not so sure what he is more upset about; her scantily clad body, or those designer jeans being auctioned off for a penny. This guy had quite the wardrobe and he may just be the type to cry more over lost footwear than girlfriends. After all he was caught red handed leaving the club with another girl, so wouldn’t that tell you he’s probably already moved on in his head?

If a guy is dumb enough to cheat on you, you shouldn’t waste your time on any plot for revenge, especially if it comes at the cost of your own self-respect. If he was a good guy and cared deeply about you, he wouldn’t have been unfaithful in the first place. So attempting to make him mad or jealous may be a lost cause. Revenge only fuels the hate fire within you, but leaves him basically unscathed. In this case, the best revenge is showing him you have moved on and are just fine. It may not be as fun, or feel as good, but happiness is always the best revenge. Not nakedness.
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Why the guys you don’t like LOVE you… and the ones you LOVE don’t give you the time of day!

A client of mine forwarded an article to me. I found it so interesting that I had to post it. “At one point or another, we’ve all wondered, “Why is it that the people I’m interested in are not interested in me? And the people I ignore keep contacting me?” It would be statistically improbable, if not impossible, that every time you liked someone they didn’t feel the same and vice versa. So what’s really going on here? Is this some sick joke from the Universe? I would like to introduce you to your new best friend when it comes … Continue reading

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